Source: Take Care of Your Type

Peacemakers are the most cozy of the Enneagram types, in my opinion. That may be hard to understand, but if you’ve ever met a Peacemaker, then you know they have a love for all the things that make life warm and snug. This is actually a strength of Peacemakers—a soft strength, if you will—but it’s also something they don’t always know how to enjoy fully. They are aware of when a moment feels intimate and special, but they are often far from truly savoring the moment and experiencing all of the emotions it inspires at once. Peacemakers don’t like to show or be affected by strong emotions, because these emotions feel so much more extreme to them than they do to other types. This is why it’s important for Peacemakers, as they play cozy games and songs or as they read and watch cozy things, to take a moment and ask themselves if they’re seeking enjoyment from the coziness, or if they’re using coziness as a way to numb how they’re really feeling inside. The comforts of life are meant to provide a sense of safety to what feels uncertain, but this can never replace the security that comes from connecting with your authentic self. So, Peacemakers, learn to truly be present in the moments of coziness you create. Allow yourself to feel things because of your environment. Let the inner peace you are attempting to preserve be affected by the emotions and realities of life. True peace will come only when you allow and accept whatever is going on within you to rise to the surface.